By Giorgia Madonno -
Marco Polo Consulting
During my cross-cultural consultancy in China often Italian managers complain because Chinese staff during meetings do not share opinions enough or do not share with bosses their point of view and do not ask questions.
Why does it happen?
1. Because across cultures the same behavior may have a different meaning.
For Italian people sharing opinions with the boss or during meetings is considered appropriate, even expected. It shows from the employee interest, ideas, proactivity, competence, leadership... but in China this behavior has a completely different meaning. Chinese staff do not share opinions in order to show respect to the boss, to give him/her "face". At school students learn not to give opinions but just answers to precise questions. They learn that the teacher (and then the manager) is the person who has all the answers and cannot be challanged.
2.
Because the finality of a meeting in Chinese and in Italian business culture is different. In China meetings are held to share information. The boss communicates his/her decision and then assigns tasks to staff. The opinions from staff are collected before the meeting, often one by one, individually by the boss, possibly by email and the boss, considering them, take decisions.
In Italy meetings are used to brain-storm, to share ideas and come-out with new possible solutions. Often the decision is taken out of the meeting (maybe informally at the coffee machine and communicated by email). For Italians the team discussion is considered very productive when there is plenty of new ideas and solutions to problems. For Chinese people the Italian meeting is messy, unclear, useless.. because no decisions are taken there, because there is not any next steps communication.
Both these approaches are not right or wrong... they are just different. But how to make Chinese and Italians working effectively together with so different points of view?
During our consultancy workshops with Chinese and Italians we always discuss about this issue and we came out with a list of tips that may help (Continue)